Knowing exactly what you expect from a serious relationship now can make the difference between a brilliant success and a discouraging failure.However, if you don't have a very realistic outlook on your overall life, this could be an opportune time to gather enough information so that you are able to convince others that you are certain of what you ( Read more... )

What makes home to you? 

 Today's thought:

I need to be part of a solution.
If I’m not happy with the way things are, I need to think about ways to change it. Then I need to be willing to approach those in power with my suggestions. If I’m not willing to be part of the solution, I need to stop whining about the way things are.

Thought from 9 Ways to Get Past School Workplace ( Read more... )

Revenge is not a noble pursuit....  yet there is a certain satisfaction to it.

Instead of waiting for the other shoe to fall... take some strength (pride?) in the fact that it has fallen before, and you lived.  Enjoying what life brings to you now does not mean you'll forget how to survive when you need to.

Maybe some fears will never ever go away ( Read more... )

So..  I dyed my hair last night.  It's this dark dark burgendy that looks kinda brown purple.  So far, not so much loving it ( Read more... )

 Last weekened marked my 3 years since getting into...this.

I'm having a moment where the things I see around me, the make me disgusted.  They make me said.  They make me feel like people are lying, and cowardly, and have absolutely zero standards.  It's a moment.  It will pass.  But it's the moment I'm living in this second.

I'm a measuring person ( Read more... )

 I had a Tarot reading done today.  Interestingly enough (to me anyway, and isn't that who's important here?) It reminded me a lot of the days when I used to go to counselling, and he said many things that those who provide me with good, positive counsel in my life have told me before.  It also, at points, reminded me of a Myers Brig, except with ( Read more... )

( Make with the clicky to indulge in my pseudo-philosophical moppiness. )

 Somedays, you just really want to be eating some crazy choco brownie caramel fudge.... but instead you're eating sugar free low calorie jello.

Rumour has it, it's not about compromise, because that feels like settling, or less of something.  It has been suggested that it's about readjusting your priorities.

Fine.  I'm readjusting my priorities.  But ( Read more... )

( This living bravely thing sucks short term balls.... )